Omg you guys use the enter key
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I don't think it's child abuse as long as it's with a hand, your own child, and of course not for small things. I wouldn't spank a child for arguing, but I would for being completely disrespectful.
For example: My brother Robert spilled orange juice. I said not to worry we'll just clean it up so mummy wouldn't slip on it when she woke up (nevermind I spent 3 hours scrubbing the floor the night before to get yogurt off of it, cordial, and other sticky shit under the table we hadn't seen fall).
Robert grabbed the paper towels with me then said he didn't want to do it. I said "well you need to, come on I will help" in a nice way. After much struggling to reason with him and show him he was not in trouble and we were working together I raised my voice and said he needed to wipe it because someone could get really hurt, or it would get sticky and we would get ants and mice if we never cleaned.
Robert said something to me that pressed a button, it was so disrespectful. I can't even remember what it was. He was 8 at the time. If he was my son I would have smacked his ass all the way to his bedroom and locked him in there (no, not with an actual lock).
What ended up happening was his father looked up from his game (3 meters from us) and told me off for being loud, and a fight ensued because he wasn't doing shit about the issues and disciplining his own son. 2 hours later (I stormed off to my room) mum slipped on the orange juice.