No, this is not about my sex life, and, no, there is no specific reason any of you should read this.
Booo! Hisss!
I just enjoy explaining myself, and have had no one to ramble to.
It's cool. Happens to the best of us.
I consider myself to be pansexual, meaning I fall in love with the person, not their junk (or lack thereof).
And here I was thinking that you were some sort of deviant that got turned on by cookware.
At least it's better than those metrosexuals. How can someone be so disturbed as to fuck a
train?
Meaning I get the hots for transgenders, girls, androgynous, boys, etc.
That doesn't really make you too different from at least 60% of the world, at least, according to most studies. The difference really just seems to be admitting it.
The thing that pisses me off is people assume I'm this way because I like sex. This is false. I'm not saying I don't like sex, I'm saying that isn't why I'm pansexual.
I assumed it was because you were indecisive. But that's just an assumption.
I don't like EVERYONE. I hate most people, in fact.
Ah, misanthropy, the crest of the fountain of teenage angst. A worthless endeavour, punctuated by meaningless rage and hate.
I just have the ability to fall in love with anyone, based on their personality.
Most people do. Most people choose not to. Other people end up in Brokeback Mountain style situations.
Given that, one would assume I've had experience with multiple genders.
I assumed you were just like most kids who use uncommon words to define their sexuality; undersexed and alone on Saturday nights.
This is also false.
Called it in midair.
I have only been with guys and have only had crushes on a few girls. There are several reasons for this.
"I don't have any game." better be on this list. If it isn't, the highest grade you'll get is a C.
1. Where I grew up (and where I am now, apparently) there were very few bi girls and no lesbian girls or transgenders or anything.
So, you live in America, in a city of less than a million people.
Of the few bisexual chicks there were, most of them said they were bi so more guys would like them. The one I knew that didn't had a boyfriend for most of the time I've known her.
Just like the girls who say they like all kinds of things just so more guys would like them. Or guys who say they like things so that more girls will like them. Sexuality isn't much different in that regard, really.
2. Most of the chicks I know are either not my type, straight, taken, or whores. I hate whores. I despise them.
Picky, picky. Just because (I assume) you don't have the goods, it doesn't mean you have to hate on people who do, and flaunt it.
If I'm looking at a chick's profile online and she repeatedly uses innuendos or shows too much cleavage or a thong, I click out of it in disgust.
Why
hello there, puritanical sense of propriety! I didn't expect to find
you here, lurking in this topic of nonstandard sexuality! Why don't you run along and put on your thick clothing. Don't show any ankle now, that could be improper!
Same goes for guys. Not saying that a chick who mentions she enjoys sex but also has a wide range of hobbies that have nothing to do with sex is out of the picture. I mean, we're all adults here. I just have no respect for those who take it too far.
I mean, we're all adults here, I just have no respect for those who discount a person just by the way they dress. I mean, isn't that just so shallow? That's like not being interested in someone because they're a giant hambeast, or have no chin, or have a neckbeard, or are so pasty that the sun has to put on shades because they're so white! I mean, it's like those people who look down on you because you don't wear American Eagle or Ambercrombie and Fitch or you got your shirts from Academy or Target. Or because they like making model trains or playing D&D.
Not that it's not okay to discriminate, but fucking seriously, you have to be pulling my leg on that one. That is quite possibly the most bullshit discrimination on trivial shit that I've seen. This isn't counting real discrimination like gender or race, naturally. Which is an entirely different ballgame.
3. I only realized I wasn't straight last summer, and I was going through a major break up at that time, so I wanted a comfortably familiar rebound, not a extremely new dating experience.
So, fear as a motivator!
Anyway, as from someone who's dated girls and guys? It's not really a new dating experience unless you're still living with your parents. Then it's just easier to arrange 'date time' and 'sleepovers'.
And that's about it, I think. I'll post something else if I think of it
Right.